I was born in Belfast in 1981, the eldest child of what was then called a “mixed marriage” – one parent Protestant, one Catholic. My father had been a Church of Ireland choirboy; my mother educated by nuns who encouraged them to walk around the playground with their arm outstretched so their guardian angel could hold their hand. But by the time they met, in their early twenties in my mother’s home city of Bristol, they had each moved away from the str